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Advice and resources : Developing early chewing skills

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Healthy habits and allergy awareness

Find advice on topics such as coping with lumpy foods and managing a cow's milk protein allergy.

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Fussy eating

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How can we help

Healthy habits and allergy awareness

Find advice on topics such as coping with lumpy foods and managing a cow's milk protein allergy.

Learn more

Using cutlery

Tips for building cutlery skills with confidence and fun.

Learn more

Fussy eating

Mealtimes feeling tough? Find out why fussiness happens and how to make food more inviting.

Learn more

Overview

Some children struggle to chew and can need a bit of extra encouragement. If your child is struggling, try some of the strategies below.

What you might see

If your child is struggling with chewing, you may notice that they:

  • only accept preferred foods 
  • refuse new foods 
  • gag when offered textured foods

How you can help

There are a number of different techniques you can try to help your child develop finger feeding.

Tips to help develop early chewing skills

Make sure they have head control and can sit unsupported before giving them finger foods. If they have additional needs, please seek advice from your child’s relevant professionals.

Make sure they can easily reach the finger foods and bring it up to their mouths on their own.

Read your child’s cues. If they show you they are not ready to have the next mouthful/bite, wait until they give you a signal they are ready.

Let them get messy and do not wipe their hands unless they’re clearly unhappy.

Try placing the food/spoon to the side of your child’s mouth, between their cheek and gums. This is where they chew. It helps children learn to move food across in their mouth and it keeps food in their mouth longer, so it is easier to swallow.

Prepare soft foods in finger shaped pieces to aid your child’s ability to grasp them. Examples include well-cooked vegetables (potato, carrot, swede, broccoli), ripe peeled soft fruit (pear, avocado, banana), hardboiled eggs, soft cheese, and well-cooked pasta.

Consider dipping teething toys and chewy tubes, to help your child chew with different parts of their mouths while tasting at the same time. You can also do this with food teethers (long, hard sticks of food that won't break as baby munches, such as mango pit or thick celery sticks) and bite-dissolve foods (melty sticks/puffs/wafers).

As they become more confident, try soft cooked meat and fish (avoid processed meat such as ham or sausages as these can be high in salt), breadsticks, crackers, toast, and pitta bread.

Provide plenty of fresh plain water, from a beaker or cup with a free-flow lid.

Things to avoid

Do not hide/disguise food to trick them. It is important for your child to be aware and in control of what is happening while eating and drinking.

Do not give your baby food that hasn't been cut up into bite-sized pieces.

Avoid the most challenging textures or foods which require lots of chewing, for example, food with skins (apples, sausages), with husks (sweetcorn), that are hard or crunchy (raw carrot), that are tough and stringy (steak, pineapple), or food that has a mixed texture (thin soup with chunks).

Avoid chunks of hard fruit and veg, such as raw apple or carrot (try grating them instead).

Avoid whole grapes and small hard foods, such as nuts or popcorn, as these can be a choking hazard.

When to ask for help

Please speak to your health visitor if you’ve tried all of the techniques above, your child is 12 months or older, and they're still having difficulty with:

  • using their hands to eat finger foods or hold a beaker to lift it to their mouth
  • certain food textures

How we can help

Movement skills

Learn more about supporting the development of fine motor skills (using their hands and fingers) and gross motor skills, such as having the balance needed to sit upright.

Browse our advice pages:

  • Fine motor skills
  • Gross motor skills

Sensory skills

We have developed advice pages to help your child manage sensory experiences, and we run online workshops to help parents.

  • Learn more about sensory processing: Learn more
  • Book your place on a sensory processing online workshop: Book onto an online workshop

Diet and nutrition advice

Our Nutrition and Dietetics Service may be able to provide more advice about developing early chewing skills. Speak to your health visitor or GP about a referral.

  • Visit the Nutrition and Dietetics Service page: Visit the service page

External support

Royal Berkshire NHS Foundation Trust (RBFT)

The following videos were developed by professionals working for RBFT.

Texture advice for selective eating

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Dietary advice for selective eating

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Sensory advice for selective eating

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Your Family Nutritionist

A guide for parents about building chewing skills.

  • Visit the Your Family Nutritionist website
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