Condition : Personality disorders
What are personality disorders?
If you have a personality disorder, you think, feel, behave, or relate to others very differently from the average person. It usually starts when you’re a teenager or young adult and, unlike in other mental illnesses, the symptoms remain stable over time, sometimes improving in later adult years.
It is common for someone with a personality disorder to have other mental health problems, such as depression. Drug addiction is another feature often seen in people with a personality disorder.
Before 2022, personality disorders were diagnosed as types, such as borderline (also known as emotionally unstable) or antisocial, but many mental health professionals are now moving to a diagnosis based on categories (mild, moderate, or severe) and traits.
Symptoms of a personality disorder may include:
- disturbed ways of thinking, such as being distrustful of others without a clear reason
- impulsive or consistently irresponsible behaviour
- criminal behaviour, such as stealing or being aggressive and violent
- problems controlling or displaying your emotions
- relationship problems
- lack of empathy (understanding of others’ feelings) and remorse
- having a distorted opinion of yourself
These symptoms are not part of an ‘episode’ as in other mental illnesses
Some people, including healthcare professionals, may still refer to the 10 personality disorder types, which are:
- antisocial personality disorder – being impulsive, manipulative, deceitful, and irresponsible, and not caring about other people’s feelings, sometimes leading to law breaking
- avoidant personality disorder – having extremely poor self-esteem and an intense fear of rejection that leads to social anxiety
- borderline personality disorder (BPD) (also known as emotionally unstable personality disorder (EUPD)) – having distorted thinking, impulsive behaviour, and intense but unstable relationships with others
- dependant personality disorder – relying on others to meet personal needs and make everyday and important life choices, and being submissive or overly attached to certain people
- histrionic personality disorder – having a great desire to be noticed (often with a distorted self-image), leading to dramatic, attention-seeking behaviours
- narcissistic personality disorder – having extreme feelings of self-importance that lead to behaviours designed to gain admiration, attention, or approval from other, alongside being unable to understand other people’s feelings
- obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD) – having an intense need for order, control, and perfection, often leading to an inability to compromise, being overly critical, and being obsessed with rules, lists, and schedules
- paranoid personality disorder – being distrustful and suspicious of others without a good reason
- schizoid personality disorder – being uninterested in forming relationships and finding it difficult to express emotions
- schizotypal personality disorder (STPD) – having unusual thoughts, beliefs, and behaviours, and finding it uncomfortable to develop and maintain close relationships, often showing distrust of others
What causes personality disorders?
It's not clear exactly what causes personality disorders, but they're thought to result from a combination of the genes a person inherits and early environmental influences (for example, distressing childhood experiences, such as abuse or neglect).
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Related services
Intensive Management of Personality Disorder and Clinical Therapies Team
- Adults
Help to understand complex emotional needs and relationship issues linked to personality disorders.
Intensive Management of Personality Disorder and Clinical Therapies Team: Go to servicePsychologically Informed Consultation and Training Team
Skills development for professionals, such as GPs and social workers, working with complex emotional needs and personality disorders.
Psychologically Informed Consultation and Training Team: Go to serviceAssertive Intervention and Stabilisation Team
- Adults
Short-term interventions for people with a personality disorder or significant difficulties managing emotions. Also known as ASSIST.
Assertive Intervention and Stabilisation Team: Go to serviceService User Network
- Adults
Peer support groups for over-18s experiencing difficulties with emotions and personality disorders (no diagnosis required).
Service User Network: Go to serviceExternal support
Further information on the NHS UK website
Mental Health Foundation
Research and campaigns to prevent poor mental health
Rethink Mental Illness
Advice and information about living with a mental health problem

